Do You Know Why They Are Unhappy?

 

Do You Know Why They Are Unhappy?

In order for you to succeed in the goals that you have, you must be a happy person.

And there are many people who are unhappy in their lives and it is possible that this is caused by the challenges that a person is going through, the things that he is going through, it is possible that it is financial challenges, relational challenges or leadership challenges.

But there is something that has deceived the happiness of many people.

But one thing that many people don't know is that happiness doesn't start outside, it starts inside you.

 And there are things that successful people have always been happy in their lives, have focused on and have always done.

There are things that if you know, you will be happy every day regardless of what is going on, regardless of what you have and these are the things today I want you to consider and learn, so that you can use them as part of building your happiness, it is quite possible to be happy every day in your life.

A thing that the psychologist Leonard said in 1954, in order to be happy, don't compare yourself to other people, he used a very good concept, upward comparison and downward comparison, that there is comparing yourself above you or comparing yourself below you, for other people with positive attitudes it helps them like wishing but a lot of people seem to be disappointed, they see themselves as late, they say, in fact, I see myself as late.

Because if that one was successful at that level, why am I not successful in this one?

 But those who compare themselves with their subordinates, we say they see themselves as very successful, comparing themselves with the people who are below them.

Psychologist Leonard, says that if you compare yourself with other people, it will be very difficult for you to succeed, because the truth is that ("somebody ten chapter it can be your one chapter").

That the tenth chapter of another person you look at may be the first chapter in your book, in other words when you compare yourself you don't know what is going on in another person's life many people for comparing themselves have found themselves entering a very expensive life, they have found themselves using things in higher levels than they were supposed to.  

A person forces themselves to do things that are beyond their ability, just because of comparing themselves.

What you need to know is that most people don't show you what is there, they show you what they want you to see.

Repeat so that you understand well, people do not show what is there for them, they show you what they want you to see.

What will happen? You will be comparing yourself to something that they want you to see but you don't know the reality of hidden things, but if you ever come across a situation or hear something from someone and say to him, I didn't know if he was a relative, that's what he was, but he was pretending that his life was not like that, so don't compare yourself to other people. Many people who compare themselves to them, you find them struggling in their lives, there are things they continue to struggle to achieve.

so focus on what you are doing, focus on your vision, still what you have to do, look at how your life should go, stop comparing yourself, you will find yourself in big problems in your life.

I once met a man, he was telling me that he was comparing himself a lot, he was longing for certain people, but it is not a bad thing there are people who live well but at the end of the day we say you have to go back to yourself because he himself comes to say what he came to discover later he was saying to If I knew them, I wouldn't want them to be like that.

There are people you've been looking up to, they drive great cars, you want to learn good things from them but you don't get to the point where you feel like you're nothing, you're useless because you compare yourself so much with others, so first stop comparing yourself, change from comparing yourself to learning, learning what he did and what he got what he got, what he did or what he learned, or what path he went through so that I can also go through.

But the person who compares himself is the one who says I want to be like So-and-so without learning what is behind it.

You can be happy every day by reading a book called YOU HAVE THE POWER TO WORK MIRACLES, Because it will teach you step by step how to build habits that bring happiness.